HYPNOTIC KINK
Retreat in Tulum

Join us in Tulum, Mexico, for an intimate multi-day immersion into altered states of play!

This retreat is designed for curious lovers and practitioners who wish to refine their presence, deepen their command of perception, and explore power dynamics through attention, trance, and intentional design.

This is not a retreat focused on technique alone. It is an entry point into a different way of relating to power, sensation, and presence.

An initiation into perception, embodiment, and intentional play.

When & Where?

🗓️ 14 - 19 November 2026
📍 Paledora Resort, Chemuyil, Mexico
🥗 3 nourishing vegetarian meals per day
🧘‍♂️ Daily morning yoga and embodiment practice

Also included:
- Swimming Pool
- Private Cenote
- Temazcal

The location is a stunning eco resort offering all the comfort and style for an unforgettable experience, alone or with your loved one(s).

CAPACITY: Only 20 spots

Pricing:

Early Bird Shared Room: 2222$ (almost sold out)

Normal Shared Room 3000$

Early Bird Private Room 3333$ (almost sold out)

Regular Private Room 4000$

What Will You Learn?

The focus is not on collecting techniques, but on understanding how and why they work, and how to apply them with precision, ethics, and presence for your play.

You will revisit and sharpen foundational elements of erotic and hypnotic play, including framing, induction, anchoring, conditioning, emergence, and aftercare, while exploring how these principles come alive through ritual, embodiment, and creative expression using whatever tools you like.

This retreat draws inspiration from multiple disciplines, including Shibari, theatre, martial arts, mesmerism, ritual practice, and performance, offering perspectives that extend play beyond any single modality.

Examples of things you'll explore:
- Creating new erogenous zones on the body (or outside of it!)
- How one can make themselves invisible (Invisible Lover, Ghost Touch)
- How to play with Sensory Modulation
- How to create an Erotic Séance
- Copy/Paste Technique
- Energy Ball of Pleasure
- Invisible Rope Bondage
and so much more...

The HYPNOTIC Team

David Marius

David is a Master Hypnotherapist and Coach. He is a Master Trainer in Verbal and Non-Verbal Hypnosis, NLP, Mesmerism, Fascination and Gaze. Since 2023, he has adapted his teachings into his BDSM practice as a professional dom (and switch).

He’s also a Sex Coach and educator who has already spoken on prestigious stages alongside major names in consciousness and Sexuality, such as Layla Martin, Neil Strauss, Rupi Kaur and many others

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KATARSIS

Katarsis is a dominatrix, educatrix, shibari artist, and playful guide into the depths of desire. With ropes, presence, and a magnetic energy, she weaves eroticism, trust, and deep surrender into her practice. As David’s partner-in-pleasure and mischief, she brings both grounding and spice to this retreat. Expect her to hold space with strength, softness, and a touch of delicious provocation.

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This Retreat is for you if…

✅ You feel drawn to the erotic arts, altered states, and the power of trance within consensual play.
✅ You are curious about how hypnosis, attention, and imagination can deepen BDSM dynamics.
✅ You want to explore dominance, submission, and polarity beyond technique.
✅ You are interested in working with touch, breath, gaze, and timing as communicative tools.
✅ You sense that pleasure is not only physical, but shaped by meaning, context, and focus.
✅ You are drawn to spaces where eroticism, ritual, and embodiment coexist intentionally.
✅ You want to refine how you hold space, lead scenes, and guide experience with clarity and care.
✅ You have explored related paths such as tantra, temple work, theatre, ritual, or performance, or feel ready to enter this terrain now.
✅ You wish to engage with power dynamics consciously, ethically, and creatively, whether as a player, facilitator, or artist.

This retreat is for those willing to pay attention, to slow down perception, and to engage play as an art rather than an act.

If something in you recognizes this language, the work begins there.

This Retreat is NOT for you if...

🚫 You are unwilling to engage erotic energy with presence, respect, and personal responsibility. This retreat requires emotional self-awareness, maturity, and the capacity to communicate clearly around boundaries and consent. If you are not prepared to meet yourself and others with care and accountability, this is not the right container.

🚫 You are looking for therapy, healing work, or trauma processing. While the experiences here can be meaningful, this retreat is not a therapeutic space. It is an exploration of power, trance, ritual, and embodied play, not a place to be fixed, rescued, or treated.

🚫 You are drawn to hypnosis as a means of manipulation, coercion, or ego reinforcement. HYPNOTIC work is rooted in consent, clarity, and ethical responsibility. Any intention that compromises the sovereignty or safety of others is incompatible with this space. Participation may be denied or revoked to protect the integrity of the group.

🚫 You expect a rigid, academic training with certificates, exams, or guaranteed outcomes. This is a living immersion rather than a classroom. While you will encounter clear frameworks and practical tools, you will also be invited into experimentation, ritual, performance, and uncertainty. If you require predictability and fixed structure, this may not be the right environment.

HYPNOTIC is a space for those willing to engage consciously, not casually.
For those who understand that freedom in play comes from responsibility, not from its absence.

What they say about the retreat

"I cannot describe how life changing our weekend was for me, because of each and every one of your energies. BUT to TRY to describe it to you… right after on Monday morning I dyed my hair BRIGHT Red—because that’s how much I felt transformed in my level of gratitude, boldness, and happiness."

Harmony

"Thank u all I feel honor to have lived this experience of expansion of heart, braking beliefs system. And be open to be vulnerable and empowered with each of u. To Maya and David what a special couple, guides and love container u create. 🙌🙏❤️"

Katya

"To everyone, thanks for this weekend. It was an incredible time. I also believe we are here to experience and the way you open up and communicate your bliss is a way forward for humanity. Thanks 🙏 Im grateful for every moment and every soul I met at Marie’s magic place."

Lioux

"Merci David. Merci à vous toutes et tous pour ce week-end hors norme. Au plaisir de vous revoir !"

William

"To everyone, thanks for this weekend. It was an incredible time. I also believe we are here to experience and the way you open up and communicate your bliss is a way forward for humanity. Thanks 🙏 Im grateful for every moment and every soul I met at Marie’s magic place."

Lioux

"What a gift this training was… Thank you to David and Queen Maia for holding such a safe space for us and what an honor it was to be in this container with all of you 💗 You are all so amazing!"

Alexandra

Apply to join:

All our retreats require for you to fill a form. Once the form is filled, if your application has been accepted, you will receive a payment link valid for 24 hours.

FAQs

Who is the retreat for?
This retreat is designed for self aware adults who feel drawn to intimacy, trance, and perception based play.

It is for people who want to explore hypnosis as a relational and erotic art, not just as a technique. Participants may identify as dominants, submissives, switches, facilitators, artists, or explorers of power dynamics.

What does experienced practitioner means, truly? You may already have experience in areas such as BDSM, hypnosis, ritual, tantra, temple spaces, theatre, performance, or embodied practices, or you may feel ready to step into this terrain with responsibility and curiosity. You have attended at least one consent workshops and have experience in navigating erotic spaces.

What matters most is not labels or credentials, but your capacity to:
• engage with consent consciously
• communicate clearly around boundaries
• take responsibility for your inner experience
• approach erotic power with presence and care

This retreat is not about proving expertise or collecting titles. It is about refining perception, presence, and intentional play within a mature and accountable container.

If you are curious about how attention, imagination, and embodiment shape sensation and power, and you are willing to engage ethically and consciously, this space is designed for you.

If you feel you don't have enough experience, you can always attend one of our open jams or any other workshops happening in your area. You can also request a call with us by sending an email to hello@davidmarius.com or hello@boundxbeyond.com

Is it a healing or therapeutic retreat?
No. This retreat is not a therapeutic or healing retreat.

While participants may experience insight, emotional release, or personal shifts, HYPNOTIC is not designed as a space for therapy, trauma processing, or psychological treatment.

The focus of this retreat is hypnotic play, ritualized play, perception, and embodied exploration. The work centers on power dynamics, trance, presence, and consensual erotic interaction, not on fixing, diagnosing, or healing participants.

Each person is expected to arrive with personal responsibility, emotional self awareness, and the capacity to care for themselves within intense or altered states. Supportive facilitation is present, but it does not replace professional therapeutic care.

If you are currently seeking healing, recovery, or clinical support, this retreat may not be the appropriate environment. HYPNOTIC is an exploration of experience and agency, not a therapeutic container.

Is the retreat sexually explicit?

None of the exercises or workshops involve explicit sexual activities. This is not a sex retreat. While participants are free to engage sexually during free time, like in any other space, the content of the workshops, exercises and rituals are non-sexual and genitals are never involved. In that way, we hope to encourage creative expression and erotic imagination.

Is this a tantra training?

No. This isn't a tantra training or a sex training. This training is more psychology and BDSM based, but it has some energetic components to it too.

What if I feel nervous or unsure?

That’s natural, and welcome. We value sensitivity, honesty, and communication.

Feeling unsure or nervous is normal. Entering a space that involves altered states, intimacy, and power dynamics naturally brings questions and apprehension.

This retreat is structured to support clarity and choice. There is no requirement to participate in anything you do not feel ready for. Consent is ongoing, reversible, and respected at every stage.

You are encouraged to move at your own pace, to communicate openly, and to listen to your boundaries as they evolve. Observation and non participation are always valid options.

Facilitation focuses on creating a container where awareness, agency, and responsibility are prioritized over intensity. Nervousness is not something to overcome or push through, but information to work with.

You are never expected to perform, prove, or exceed your limits. The work unfolds through attention, not pressure.

This retreat is designed to hold space for growth while honoring your personal edges. If you feel called, but tender, trust that you’re not alone. Feel free to reach out for a call with David or Maia via email hello@davidmarius.com . No rush.

Do couples get a discount?

No. Couples do not get a discount as this would be unfair for people who are single. However, couples who book 2 shared rooms or 2 shared tents will get own private room or tent together for more privacy.

What is the refund policy?

By registering for a retreat facilitated by David Marius Boulet and Maia Boulet-Loiseau (Katarsis), you acknowledge that you have read, understood, and agree to the following Terms and Conditions.

1. Enrollment & Payment

Your place is confirmed once full payment is received or first installment of payment plan paid.

All plans complete 60 days before start.

Limited spaces: first come, first served.

Missed payments = spot release, no refund.

2. Cancellations by Participant

90 days: 50% refund or 12-month credit.

60–90 days: 25% refund.

<60 days: Non-refundable (venue/logistics locked).

3. Transfers

To another participant: Up to 30 days, free.

To future event: Organizer discretion, exceptional cases only.

4. Cancellations by Organizer

Full refund or credit if postponed/canceled.

No liability for your travel/expenses (flights, visas, etc.).

Do couples get a discount?

Like any other explorative activities, engaging in play, power dynamics, group dynamics and BDSM isn't risk-free. However, these risks can be brought significantly down by observing the basic rules of ethics, consent and safety. We do our very best to mitigate these risks by implementing strong safety rules and support. Our containers are considered safer than most other similar retreats because we don't allow penetrative sex and direct genital touch during practice and play time. Participants are screened upon sign up and the high number of facilitators allow ongoing support all throughout the retreat. Also, we don't allow activities than can leave permanent marking on the skin or alter the body in any way. We also don't allow any kind of hypnotic activities or psychological play geared towards revisiting past trauma or meet your deepest fears. We keep things light and fun.